It isn’t often we meet a living legend. Although she is far too modest to admit it, Adele Khoury Graham is indeed a legend—particularly in the state of Florida. Alongside her husband, former United States Senator Bob Graham, she devoted decades to public service and left an enduring legacy for future generations. The couple served Florida with distinction: Bob Graham as Governor from 1979 to 1987, and then as a U.S. Senator from 1987 to 2005.

Adele Graham is a poised, gracious and articulate woman, steadfast in her commitment to the causes she champions. She is humble yet proud of the profound influence and lasting impact she and her husband achieved during and after her husband’s time in office. Her eyes sparkle as she recalls the many initiatives they supported and the lives they touched during their seven decades together.

The causes Adele Graham supported were as diverse as they were essential, ranging from elder care and hospice programs to educational reform, historic preservation and environmental stewardship. She focused on supporting the often overlooked and forgotten members of society, shaping programs that reflected the most tender needs of Floridians.

Married for 67 years, the Grahams were tireless partners in public and private life, raising four daughters and fostering a close-knit family that remains bonded to this day. Lovingly known as “Deedle” by her grandchildren—while Bob Graham was affectionately called “Doodle”—Adele Graham remains an active presence in their lives.

The Grahams’ years in public service were intense and complex, but, as Adele Graham reflects, “throughout it all, my life was abundant with good thoughts and recognition.” Their daughters were proud of their parents’ work and often contributed in their own ways. The Grahams were also surrounded by loyal friends who supported their missions.

Education has always been a core value for Adele Graham. Her daughter Gwen Graham, former U.S. assistant secretary of education for legislation and congressional affairs, credits her mother as a powerful influence.

“Mom was a role model for all of us,” said Gwen Graham. “Without her, my dad would not have been able to accomplish everything he did in public life.” She added, “her passion for public education inspired mine. I watched her visit schools in every county in Florida to assess their needs. My parents understood that the goal of every Floridian having access to a good job begins with a strong education system.”

Both Bob and Adele Graham attended the University of Florida and were long-time supporters. Adele Graham played a pivotal role, alongside her husband, in founding the Bob Graham Center for Public Service at the University of Florida.

The Bob Graham Center for Public Service was established to create a community of students, scholars and citizens who share a commitment to revitalizing the civic culture of Florida and the nation. The Center is driven by three central principles: civic engagement, public leadership and public service.

After nearly three-quarters of a century in public service, Adele Graham is widely respected for her lifelong commitment to serving the people of Florida. When she visits the Bob Graham Center, UF students eagerly line up to meet her, engage in conversation and take photos.

As Matt Jacobs, director of the Bob Graham Center for Public Service, noted: “Mrs. Graham is often recognized for her support of Senator Graham and his legacy, but she was equally steadfast in pursuing her own passions and is a vital part of that legacy in her own right. Her life of service reflects the Center’s core message—that anyone can engage, lead and serve, no matter their station in life.”

Graham reflected on her life in public service.

What are some of the experiences you enjoyed during your years in public service?

I was fortunate to have many meaningful experiences, but what I enjoyed most was getting to know the people of Florida. When Bob ran for governor, he created the “workdays” program—working different jobs across the state to better understand citizens’ lives. We invited every participant from those workdays to his inauguration. I had the privilege of meeting many of them, and Bob stayed in touch for years.

One of my first responsibilities during the campaign was visiting nursing homes and schools. That work became a benediction to my role as first lady. At the time, there was little advocacy for the elderly, so we took up that cause. Having grown up as an only child with aging parents, I knew, firsthand, how difficult elder care could be and the constant struggle for families.

We made real progress. We strengthened the Florida Council on Aging and launched the Community Care for the Elderly program. We improved the nursing home standards and rating systems. Florida became the first state to license hospice care. In 1980, I served as the honorary chair of the Governor’s Conference on Aging, and in 1981, I was honored to be an official at the White House Conference on Aging.

“Adele Graham, as Florida’s very gracious first lady, was a dynamic advocate for the elderly. Governor Graham’s budget staff couldn’t say no to her. Legislators would return her calls immediately. Some even asked me to intervene, but I’d simply smile and say, ‘She doesn’t work for me, I work with and for her. Just do what she asks, and she won’t have to call you again!’”  – Margaret Lynn Duggar, President, Margaret Lynn Duggar and Associates, Inc.

Education was another passion. I visited schools in all 67 counties and noticed the challenges teachers faced as well as a pressing need for volunteer support and intervention in the dropout crisis. We established and encouraged essential volunteer programs and focused on dropout prevention initiatives.

Tell us about your passion for historic preservation.

I’ve always been deeply committed to preserving Florida’s history. My first project was the restoration of the Union Bank building in Tallahassee. I worked alongside former First Lady Mary Call Collins, preservationist Cora Morse and others to raise the funds needed. Bill Mansfield, editor of the Tallahassee Democrat, coined the slogan “Invest in the Old Union,” or IOU, and donations poured in from across the state—including from schoolchildren and banking institutions.

Another project close to my heart was the expansion of the Governor’s Mansion. We added the Florida Room, which was much needed at the time. I made sure any improvements were historically accurate, which included selecting art from the Ringling Museum of Art in Sarasota.

As first lady of Florida, I also served as vice president of the Board of Florida House in Washington, D.C.—the only state embassy on Capitol Hill. Founded through the vision of former First Lady Rita Chiles, Florida House remains a welcoming space for visitors and a symbol of state pride. I was fortunate to serve on that board for many years.

You’ve received many awards and honors—are there any that mean the most to you?

I’m honored by all the recognition, but I’m especially proud of the difference we made in Florida’s schools. The University of Florida named me an Alumna of Outstanding Achievement, which was particularly meaningful due to our family’s connection to UF and Bob’s involvement.

I’m also proud of the Bob Graham Center for Public Service at UF. It stands as a testament to Bob’s legacy, and the students’ ongoing work is a reflection of his lifelong dedication to public service.

“Adele Graham is always gracious, with a remarkable ability to make everyone feel like the most important person in the room. She has a gift for thoughtful follow-up, often sending personal notes and letters to everyone she meets.  Through her warmth and sincerity, she endeared herself to countless people, making each one feel like part of the Graham family. Adele was the perfect partner serving Floridians alongside Governor and Senator Graham.” – Mary Chiles, former state director for Senator Bob Graham and member of the advisory council for the Bob Graham Center at UF

How long have you lived at Oak Hammock?

We’ve been here for six years. We originally stayed here during visits to Gainesville, often while working to establish the Bob Graham Center. Our dear friends, Rev. Walter and Mrs. Janie Kalaf, who were long-time residents, were instrumental in our coming to Oak Hammock. We admired the vibrant community, the Institute for Learning in Retirement and the warm, knowledgeable staff. Once we made the decision to move, our daughters helped us settle here.

“Adele was deeply devoted to Bob and was pleased to finally retire at Oak Hammock – just as they had always planned. She is a proud mother of four daughters, who visit her often. She is a kind and thoughtful neighbor and a valued part of our community—and of the Oak Hammock Singers! – Sybil Farwell, Oak Hammock resident 

What advice would you give to someone considering Oak Hammock?

Take the time to observe the outstanding qualities of this community. Talk to residents and learn from their experiences. We are so fortunate to receive such high-quality care, and we’ve enjoyed making meaningful connections with fellow residents.

What are your plans for the future?

I’ve been an activist most of my life, but now I look forward to a quieter chapter—spending time with our daughters, 11 grandchildren and three (soon to be four) great-grandchildren. We gather often at our family farm in Georgia, especially for Thanksgiving. I plan to cherish every moment with family and friends.

“Adele is a model mother-in-law. I always say I’m lucky to be married to one of the Graham girls. They are an extraordinary, close-knit family. Once you’re part of the Graham family, you’re in for life!” – Stephen Hurm, husband of Gwen Graham